Maturity, Commitment, and Growth

Maybe it really is. It is part of the process that somehow, in the long run, a pause is needed to save what has been tainted.

As the relationship gets through time, new phases are going to arise to test you more and more. Then the next thing you’ll know, you’re growing together or apart. Given that you are both individuals with different passion and ambitions, priorities would try to fit in as you unravel the mysteries of life. When you thought that almost every little thing is well, reality would probably slap & tell you that its still not done yet.

No matter how prepared you are, if its meant to happen it will happen. This is life, after all.

So, as you the both of you grow older and wiser. Making decisions gets into you especially when it involves people who are close to your heart. What more if it includes your ultimate dream, right? It would leave you with countless of sleepless nights and daydreaming trying to figure out what’s best in your situation. What’s better for the two of you? What’s good in your relationship?

She needed to make one. She needed to save herself.

All else are going to fail and go down if she weren’t brave enough to stand up for herself and for her dreams. I salute her for choosing growth as individuals through letting you go and you letting go.

For sure, it was tough. How many times did she stay when you have given her millions of reasons to leave? Did she complain about your supposed to be working dream? Did it come out from her mouth how hard it is for her to keep up? To fight alone? To be left hanging while you are trying to figure out your lost dream.

That’s why I can’t blame her. She needed to push through her limit and start working for and on herself. She told you to leave and you left, with that first and last blow from her. You gave up. You didn’t fight.

Maybe it was vital, it cleared out the way going through the path that both of you took years ago. That growing together can also be growing apart, in your own ways. It works.

Once you are prepared, you can function well and be more efficient. 

And maybe by then, you can start working again for that lost love and lover.

Love, 

Raice of 09/01/18 after watching The Hows Of Us